Mrs. X
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I understand the need to stand up for your beliefs, but you should do so frequently....and loudly, just like everyone else here does.
I remember one time we were in Malibu sitting outside eating lunch. I commented on some girl's hair, something about "pony tails". My friend was like, "what did you just say?" I repeated myself. The whole table said I was wrong and that the proper terminology was "pig tails". I was absolutely, positively sure that they were in the wrong. I was so sure I think I bet a buck or something. I went over to the girl and asked her if she would consider her hair style "pig tails" or "pony tails". She said pig tails. I was shocked.
Growing up my mom always put my hair in "pony tails". It was such a deeply ingrained "belief" that to hear anything to the contrary was shocking. I mean I know were only talking about a hairstyle here, but I seriously felt a weird sense of sickness and vertigo that something I just *knew* for a fact could be blown out of the water so cavalierly.
So, what I'm trying to say here, in this convoluted possibly ridiculous story is that if something so minor could mess up my head so much, I really can understand how something as big as religious beliefs could make you lash out.
But, it's really hard to have a conversation with a person that just says "don't pick on me/call me dumb" and doesn't have a way to defend their position. I think just because you want something to be true, no matter how badly, doesn't mean it is. I can't respect (the position, not you personally) the argument that ends in "well that's what I believe, so you should be polite".
If you watched the Dawkins video, you might have a better understanding on why I feel so strongly, and my difficulty in being "polite" (about religion). Did you even watch it?