If your significant other.....

[Cami]

Doesn't like someone, or doesn't want you to be friends with them, are you required to not be said persons friend?
OR
Do you be friends with them and simply respect the fact your s/o doesn't like them an don't force them on each other?

 

[reno cool]

it depends on who you met 1st imo, but usually the latter.

 

[Matty]

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[shdw01]

I always see the facepalm icon and this is the first time I was temped to use it.

I'm very biased here because this person you are speaking of is a friend of mine.

I think there are so many factors. Who were you friends with longer? How long have you been with significant other? etc.

In general I think eventually you have to respect your significant other's wishes if it is a simple case of don't like the other person. If there are reasons you disagree with then you have to voice them to the significant other and see how things wind up. But if it is just "I don't like that person", you are doomed to fail if you don't respect those wishes.

However, not being friends does not mean to become that person's enemy as well. Very big difference here. If I like someone but my wife hates them, I will not hang out with said person anymore. But I will not throw stones at that person. I may even still consider them a friend but just cut all communication/ties.

 

[Badnina]

Mr. Nina respects me enough not to attempt to "limit" my relationships. He gets that I am my own person and he has full faith and trust in me and my decisions.

 

[housepicks]

I always see the facepalm icon and this is the first time I was temped to use it.

I'm very biased here because this person you are speaking of is a friend of mine.

I think there are so many factors. Who were you friends with longer? How long have you been with significant other? etc.

In general I think eventually you have to respect your significant other's wishes if it is a simple case of don't like the other person. If there are reasons you disagree with then you have to voice them to the significant other and see how things wind up. But if it is just "I don't like that person", you are doomed to fail if you don't respect those wishes.

However, not being friends does not mean to become that person's enemy as well. Very big difference here. If I like someone but my wife hates them, I will not hang out with said person anymore. But I will not throw stones at that person. I may even still consider them a friend but just cut all communication/ties.

In my land we call this being a pussy. I think it translates the same way.

 

[shdw01]

In my land we call this being a pussy. I think it translates the same way.

don't make me use my gypsy curse on your indian tribe

 

[reno cool]

Mr. Nina respects me enough not to attempt to "limit" my relationships. He gets that I am my own person and he has full faith and trust in me and my decisions.

that is something. kinda like to meet this guy. I wonder if this is how Mr.M is?

 

[RayRay]

if a broad doesnt like my friends and if other broads are invited out/over with us, she has a choice to come or not... but im a stingy fuck and if i want to hang with some friends, im going to...