Rito, Bitches be crazy.
Partly because society/civilization gives females the impression that it is our job, our duty to get men off, to re-procreate, to adhere to mens desires because they are bigger, stringer, and provide, blah blah blah,......with that being said, when a women cannot provide the simple service of sexually/physically pleasing a man, we feel inadequate, because that is what we set out to do in the first place (that and get ourselves off too). We worry that if we cannot please you every time, eventually, you will seek this pleasure elsewhere.....and women view physical intimacy in a more emotional sense then men do. I do not know or understand why, but they do. Pleasing a man, especially a man you want, is the ultimate way to lock them in, to make them yours....and if and when we can't do that.....it can reek havoc on our emotions and mentality. We like having Pussy Power, if and when that becomes lost.....well....we have a problem on our hands.
I am certain men, at least every now and again, have their sexual insecurities when they can't get a/their women off.... it's part of who we are as humans, we seek to please one another, and to get approval in all facets....it is what it is... why the need to make it anything more, I don't understand. Oh you can't get me off? My vibrator can..use that....wait I can't get you off?? How about a hand job? Oh you want to want to jerk off, fine...cum on me.... We as humans, both men and women, like to feel, anything, everything good....we have fantasies, we have desires, so why does HOW you makes someone feel good have to be an issue?